Marry Well is a community of Christians committed to dating, being in relationships and forming marriages for God's glory.


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Marry Well was launched by three couples who spent years speaking and writing about marriage, but kept noticing friends struggling to find good opportunities for marriage. When we would cautiously recommend that our friends try using popular dating services, they would come back telling us about their difficulty in finding people who were equally serious about their faith or about pursuing marriages for God’s glory.

We decided -- even though there were 1,500 dating sites already on the Internet, and even though many of them had multi-million dollar marketing budgets – that there had to be room for at least one dating site, that 1) was absolutely committed to honoring God and marriage above everything else, 2) was willing to give away coaching advice even if it meant people would use it to meet and marry people without using our online community, 3) was willing to stay around and offer support for people who connected through our site, but then had questions about how to best move forward and 4) was welcoming to mentors and parents who wanted to join the community in a supporting role.

We’re grateful for all the men and women who have joined this community and continue to praise God for all of those who have shared their engagement and wedding stories with us so far.

Here’s more about us:

Motte and Beth Brown

Motte is the Director of Online Marketing for Prison Fellowship. For five years, Motte served as the manager of Family Formation for Focus on the Family, where he drove the expansion of Boundless.org. Motte and Beth met and married in Washington, D.C., where they attended Capitol Hill Baptist Church. They were married by Pastor Mark Dever. They have been married for 12 years and have six children.

Kurt and Olivia Bruner

Kurt is a graduate of Talbot Seminary and serves as Pastor of Spiritual Formation at Lake Pointe Church and as adjunct faculty with Dallas Theological Seminary. Best-selling author of more than a dozen books, Kurt spent 20 years with Focus on the Family where he was Vice President over media. Olivia is a former school teacher who now speaks to moms about the hectic joys of parenthood. She is the author of The Minivan Years, a frequent guest on national radio programs, and on the faculty of the Heritage Builders Association. Married for 25 years, the Bruners have four children.

Steve and Candice Watters

Steve is the Director of Publications and Strategic Initiatives for the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. He and Candice were the founders of Boundless.org webzine. For six years, Steve served as the director of young adults for Focus on the Family. Candice is the author of Get Married: What Women Can Do to Help It Happen. Together they wrote Start Your Family: Inspiration for Having Babies. Married for 13 years, Steve and Candice have 4 children.